Got some questions for you all: Is it wrong to take someone at their word? to believe they will do what they say they will when they say they will do it? Is it wrong to get your feelings hurt if you plan to do something special for someone when they blow you off to do something else even thought you arranged it on their schedule to make sure they could be there? Is it wrong to try to do nice things for people you like? Is it wrong to be sad when it does not work out like you planned it? Is it wrong to place all the plans in place ahead of time so you can be sure everyone can be there, and not wait to the last minute to set things up? Is it wrong to get your feelings hurt when you feel like the person tried to make happy does not care they made you sad?
Is it wrong to worry about people you love even thought they do not seem to care about themselves? Is it wrong to try to stop a friend from doing something that could wind them up in the hospital? Is it wrong to offer your opinion of something if you know a friend is making a mistake, and try to get them to do it the correct way? Is it wrong to tell someone if they hurt your feelings? Is it wrong to cry when those you love hurt your feelings or scare you by not taking care of their health? Is it wrong to be less inclined to do something nice for someone that threw it back in your face when you tried before to do something nice for them? I know I take a lot of things personally and that I know is wrong, but I really do not think people should hurt friends feelings. The ironic thing is when you try to tell them how you feel and they say you are trying to guilt trip them. Why should they feel guilt just because you tell them they hurt your feelings if they do not know it was wrong?
Oh and for the record blogging is my way of getting bad feelings hurt and anger out of my mind. Anyone who does not like what I say feel free to not read it or comment on it if you wish. Just remember 2 things I did not use any names in this because I am not trying to embrace anyone. Also remember even if you see yourself in this it may not be you I was talking about, but if you post a replay that is all mad about it when your name was not mentioned even if you are not one of the ones that upset me everyone will know you have done things that you yourself think I was writing about lol. So if you see yourself in any of my blogs ask yourself WHY?
